My Mother’s Story
Hazel Lucille Mutzner
Oct. 21, 1927 to Jan. 10, 1990
Hazel told us (her children) a few memories of her life when she was about 62 years
old. We wrote it down or taped it. We filled in what she missed or didn’t
finish. This has been left in her own words as much as possible.
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| 1928 Hazel and Loretta |
I was born
October 21, 1927 out in the country near Marine, Illinois. I was the second baby
of Irene LuLu Zimmermann and Christian Philipp Mutzner. I had an older sister
Loretta. They say I weighed ten pounds or more. I was not a pretty or tiny baby
but Grandma Zimmermann (my mother’s mother) said by the time I was a few months
old I was a beautiful baby. I had a sister born 15 months later named Lylah
Irene and a sister born after Lylah her name was Helen Fay.
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| 1931 Hazel and Loretta |
The year I was born
Grandma and Grandpa Zimmermann built the big white house on the edge of town in
Highland. Before that time, they lived in the country. My mother had a big table
in the kitchen. Its legs were made from piano legs. It was very big and heavy.
They say my mother was a very good cook. My daddy’s brothers and sisters would
come to the farm every weekend on Sunday. It was the depression years and no one
had anything, but daddy had food. Mother would fill the big, long wood dining
room table full of good food for everyone. My mother also could sew good. One
winter my mother needed a winter coat, but we were poor and couldn’t afford a
coat for her. She took her old coat completely apart and sewed it back together
inside out. Our farmhouse in the country was a very big one. We used one side
and kept the other part closed. The bedroom was very big and had two large beds
in it. We all slept in this room.
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Adeline (Lena) Koeler Zimmermann - Irene's mother Hazel's Grandma Zimmermann |
My mother had a brother, Uncle Oliver and a sister, Aunt Inez. Aunt Inez was just 13 years older than I was. Oliver married Aunt Frieda and they had two girls Nina and Doris.
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Irene's sister Inez Zimmermann Hazel's Aunt She sent all Hazel's children birthday cards with nickels and dimes. |
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1952 Oliver Zimmermann Irene's brother |
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1980 Oliver and Frieda Zimmermann Irene's brother and Hazel's aunt and uncle |
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Nina Zimmermann Oliver and Frieda's oldest daughter Hazel's cousin |
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Doris Zimmermann Oliver and Frieda's youngest daughter Hazel's cousin |
I lived in the country all my
baby years. I was a big, fat, robust baby. My older sister and I played
together. She was the boss. One time Loretta and I were left in the kitchen
while mother and daddy were outside doing the evening chores. Loretta got the
bright idea to fill all the empty pots with syrup. So, we poured a little in
several pots. We called it fixing supper. When mother and daddy came in from
milking the cows that night, they asked us what we were doing and Loretta piped
up, “we’re making supper”. My mother wasn’t impressed. Loretta insisted I made
her do it. We both ended up with a spanking.
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Back Row: 2nd from left, Christian Mutzner Front Row: Helen, Lylah, Hazel, Loretta |
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| 1938 circa Hazel, Loretta, Lylah, Helen |
When I was small, we had gone to
Grandma Zimmermann’s one night. I fell asleep on the couch. It was an
old-fashioned couch and stood tall. I rolled off it and hurt my arm. Grandma
insisted it was broken but the rest said no. So, we just went home. I kept
crying if they touched my arm, so they decided to take me to the doctor. It was
a broken collar bone. It was put into a cast for six weeks. A few days after it
was taken off, I was out in the yard and saw some worms thinking they were
snakes. I started to run to the house hollering snake, snake. I tripped over the
chicken water trough and broke it again. That put my arm into a cast for eight
weeks longer. When they finally unwrapped it, Grandma said I was rotting away.
But it did fine and I had no more trouble with it.
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Back Row 2nd from left: Christian Mutzner Front Row: Helen, Lylah, Hazel, Loretta |
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| Hazel, Helen, Loretta, Lylah |
One time Lylah decided she
was going to go to town (Highland) with daddy. He didn’t want to take her. She
was about two years old and he was going for plow equipment or something. His
car had a tire on the back of it and so Lylah got up there and held on all the
way to town. When he got to town and stopped, she got down and walked around to
him. He put her in the car and took her back home.
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| Christian Mutzner |
Aunt Inez, Aunt Frieda,
and/or Grandma Zimmermann would come to our farmhouse quite a bit to care for us
while my mother and father worked with farm chores or in the fields. When
Loretta was a baby and Aunt Frieda had Doris, she would take care of the babies.
She nursed Doris and then she would pick up Loretta and nurse her. One day we
were all taking our naps; Lylah, Helen, and I. Mother wasn’t feeling well so she
was laying down with us in one big bed. Grandma Zimmermann tried to wake my mom
saying, “wake up I have to go home and get supper. Wake up now Loretta’s bus
will be coming”. Grandma shook mother’s arm then said, “Gott im Himmel!” I think
it meant Oh, my God in heaven or something like that. Because she discovered my
mother was dead. She pushed us girls out of the room. Then she came out too. My
mother was buried on my fifth birthday. We were later told that mother tried to
give herself an abortion and had bled to death.
After my mother died, daddy sold
his farm which had been his fathers. His father died with he was born. My father
moved in with my Aunt Freida and Uncle Oliver (my mother’s brother). They lived
beside my Grandma Zimmermann. Aunt Frieda and Uncle Oliver had two girls Nina and
Doris. Doris was one month older than Loretta and Nina was three years older than
Doris. Grandma and Aunt Frieda took care of us together. They cooked together
and washed clothes together all was done together. Some nights I slept at
Grandma’s and some nights at Aunt Frieda’s. They had one room at Aunt Frieda’s
for us. Daddy hauled beer and was gone four or five days at a time. Our room had two
large beds for us four girls and daddy when he was home.
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| Christian's beer truck |
My daddy hauled beer to make a living. The kind of beer daddy hauled was Scholtz Old Lager. Between loads, he would get a load of apples or peaches, or watermelons and sell them. Grandpa Zimmermann would set up a sign in his front yard and set the fruit out and sell them. He could sell them while daddy was hauling beer.
Daddy bought a little
house behind Grandma’s. Aunt Frieda and Uncle Oliver lived in the very next
house. Since we stayed with Grandma and Aunt Frieda and daddy drove the beer
truck, he had no use for the house, so he rented it. This area of town was known
as White City.
In the springtime Grandma would clean out a little chicken house
in her back yard and fix it for us to have a playhouse. There was a grape arbor
over the sidewalk in front of the chicken house and we really had lots of fun
playing in it. It was close to the garden and we would go to the garden
sometimes and get stuff to eat in the playhouse. We would play like we were
washing dolly clothes and hang them on the grape arbor to dry. We had a scooter
and wagons to play with. There were six of us girls and we really had a good
time all day long.
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| Hazel and the Chicken House |
Loretta was always smart in school. Doris and I were not.
Loretta was known as a book worm. I was known as the dumb bell. I went to school
in Highland with my sister, Loretta, and two cousins, Doris and Nina. We had to
walk about a mile to school. One day I was supposed to return a book to the
library across town from the school, but I forgot it at school. The girls
insisted I go back and get it. I did and turned around to make it back to the
other girls. There was some big boy walking along the sidewalk carrying a bass
horn. We collided and I cut a large gash in my eyebrow. It bled all over. It
really looked bad.
Grandma and Grandpa Zimmermann, Aunt Frieda, and Uncle Oliver
would sit in Grandma’s back yard at night and all us kids would play hide and
seek. My Grandma always did a lot of canning during the summer: beans, peas,
tomatoes, cucumbers, corn, sauerkraut, jellies of all kinds; plum, grape, berry,
etc. Aunt Inez would come over and we would all go berry picking together. We
would have to sprinkle stuff on our body to keep from getting chigger bites. Every Saturday during the summer we went to town and got groceries with Inez,
Frieda, and Grandma Zimmerman.
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| Hazel |
I had growing pains in my legs. All of us
girls did. Grandma Zimmermann would rub my legs. They were so bad. If I got it
before bedtime, Grandma would open the oven and I’d prop my leg on the door for
warmth.
One year at Christmas time after Aunt Inez had married Uncle Alvin,
Grandma and Aunt Freida’s family and all four of us sisters were invited to Aunt
Inez’s house. This was a rare and wonderous occasion. She lived in White City at
the time, behind Grandma’s. I remember eating popcorn and having a good time
when everyone decided they heard something upstairs, so we all trooped up to the
bedroom and down from the attic came Santa Claus in full red costume. I was
never told for certain, but I believe it was Uncle Alvin under the suit. Each
girl received a present from Santa. The evening held one of the most exciting
moments of my childhood.
Aunt Inez had no children when I was a young child and
it seems she instigated much of the special occasions. On the fourth of July we
would all go to Highland Park where they had games all afternoon. In the evening
Aunt Inez would gather us all up (Nina, Doris, Loretta, me, Lylah, and Helen)
and we would sit on a blanket on a hill and watch the fireworks. When I was
little, I found candy upstairs in Aunt Inez’s house. I would always sneak up
there to eat it. Aunt Inez never said anything about it although I’m sure she
knew.
Daddy married a woman from Pennsylvania. Her name was Olive Eleanor Allen.
She was a big woman, not so fat, just tall and robust and she had red hair.
Grandma and all the rest of the family liked to call her the big red head. When
daddy got remarried, we lived in Highland behind Grandma Zimmermann’s house. We
lived there a couple of months and then we moved to East Alton. We rented a five
room house on Broadway.
I was nine when he remarried. We really missed getting
to stay at Grandma Zimmermann’s house. When I was little, I wet the bed. My
daddy would get up real early and take my wet sheets and hang them down by the
furnace to dry before my stepmother would find out. In the summer at Grandma’s,
she would give us girls a catalogue to cut out paper dolls. We would spend days
cutting dolls and furniture. We would take some home to daddy’s house and my
stepmother, the red head, would not allow us to play with them. So, I would hide
them under the newspaper lining of my dresser drawer. If she found them, she
would always throw them away. This made us sad for a couple of days. We could
spend hours and hours playing with paper dolls. Every time we saw a pretty woman
or a pretty girl we would cut it out. It was always cool in Grandma’s basement.
That is where we spent a lot of our summer.
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| Helen, Hazel, Lylah, and Loretta |
I always loved “little ones” or
babies. I was called, “the little mother”. That really made me happy. At night I
remember laying on the bed looking at the sky. It was so very pretty. Daddy had
a rooster that he teased when we lived on Ohio Street. We could hardly hunt
Easter eggs because it would peck us. Daddy would have to stand and watch us
when we hunted Easter eggs. Aunt Inez would come and take us home with her to
Grandma Zimmermann’s for special times like Christmas and several weeks in the
summer. We loved Grandma Zimmermann very much because she was always there when
we wanted something. Grandma Zimmermann made us clothes for school. I remember a
salmon-colored dress made in the princess style and buttoned all the way down
the front. The buttons were little white ducks and it had about three rows of
white bric-a-brac trimming on the bottom of the skirt. It was the most beautiful
dress I ever could own. She used to make us four or five dresses a piece for
school each year.
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| 1942 Helen and Hazel |
Grandma Zimmermann taught me how to sew and embroidery. I
embroidered all the blocks for a quilt and in the winter, Grandma quilted it for
me. There were enough squares for a large quilt and a baby quilt. The blocks
were made with a sunbonnet pattern.
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| 1943 Helen Mutzner 11 years old |
In the spring of 1942, I met your daddy, he
was a soldier boy who was stationed at the USO in East Alton, Illinois next to
the railroad tracks that went right through East Alton. I was going to the
library with Lylah. I asked him if he would like to go to the library with me
and he said yes. We went to the library. We did this off and on several times.
We stayed till about 9:00 pm every time and he would walk us home. I was 15 and
Lylah was 13. I could only go to the library if I walked with Lylah. The next
thing I knew we were real friendly and I kind of liked him and I told him how
lonely I was and how hateful my stepmother was, and how I longed and needed to
be loved by someone. After several hours it would be time to go home. All we did
at the library was sit and talk. Finally, he asked me if I would marry him,
right there at the library with Lylah with us. We made no specific plans. We
started to go home. All three walking home we went across the subway sidewalk
and as we started to come out the other end, we met the Big Red Head. She was
real mad. She walked all the way home with us and probably even gave us a swat
every once in a while. When we got home, daddy was home and we all talked. They
agreed that we could write letters, but we were not to think of getting married.
We agreed to this.
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| 1942 Hazel 14 years old |
When summer came, mother and daddy thought I should live with
Aunt Inez and get a job in Highland. They thought this would prevent me from
seeing your daddy. So, I lived with Aunt Inez all summer. Your daddy wrote to
tell me that he was coming to see me during his next furlough. I was planning
for his visit. The night he came, I didn’t know exactly what time he was coming,
and I went to the show with all the girls; all my sisters, Nina, Doris, and Aunt
Inez. Your daddy went to the show also and called for Hazel Mutzner. I went out
to see who it was. Of course, it was him and we didn’t go back in. We walked
around town and talked. No one knew where we were. They were worried and getting
madder and madder. It wasn’t a very nice thing to do, but that’s what we did.
When we got tired, we went home. Aunt Inez was really mad. I thought the red
head was bad, well, you should have heard Aunt Inez and Uncle Alvin. Here I was
staying at her house and I was cutting up like that! That was terrible. I had to
pack my bags quick like and get home to my daddy. I couldn’t stay at her house
anymore. I went home and went back to school.
Your daddy had given me money when
I went to Aunt Inez’s just in case I needed it to run away. I could go to Fort
Leonard Wood, Missouri or Georgia which ever one I wanted to go to. I thought
for sure I was going to need it after that, but I didn’t. I had written a letter
to put with the money to let him know I hadn’t needed the money and that we
couldn’t run away and get married. I had put it up and was saving it. I had to
be on the sly, so I didn’t have a chance to mail it yet. When I was back in East
Alton they found my money and letter and thought it was really great that I had
not used it to run away.
I didn’t see him anymore. He went back to Fort Leonard
Wood. We continued to write. One day when I got home from school, your daddy was
on furlough and he was there waiting for me with my parents. We all talked very
friendly and nice and we decided that we wanted to go to the show that night.
So, everyone went to the show in the same car; daddy, my sisters, your daddy,
and me. I had just turned 15 at this time. Your daddy and I stayed outside on
the porch for a while after everyone went inside. He said that the next morning,
he would come and get me and we’d get married. So that morning, I got ready for
school and waited and waited for him. He finally came. He told my daddy we were
going to get married. Daddy was really mad. He said he guessed he wouldn’t be
able to stop us, so he gave his blessing, but said don’t ever come back to this
house again. I packed a few clothes in my little suitcase and we left.
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| 1943 Hazel Crawford |
We went
to a bus station in Alton and waited for a bus to St. Louis so we could then
catch a bus to Waycross, Georgia. It took us several days and nights to get
there. We went to his Aunt’s house in Waycross and got cleaned up and were
trying to find a place to get married. It was Armistice Day, November 11, 1942
and every place was closed. There was a big parade with soldiers from the air
force and navy bases, and army equipment everywhere. We went to the courthouse.
They had to call a judge to come in and marry us. We had witnesses that were
standing in the hall, but we didn’t know them.
Then we caught a bus to
Blackshear. When we got there your daddy’s mom was real happy to see me and was
nice to me. I liked staying there, but it wasn’t like home. As soon as he
dropped me off, your daddy went to San Luis Obispo, California. He stayed there
for a long time.
Your daddy’s brother, Carl, was just a little older than I was
and his sister, Scrap, was just a little younger. There was maybe 16 months
between us three. We walked to school together. Scrap always had to make the
breakfast, so we decided that we’d divide it up. She’d make breakfast one week
and I’d make it the next. One day I was trying to make biscuits for breakfast. I
was slower than Scrap and couldn’t do the things she could do. When breakfast
was just about done, Grandpa Crawford came in and wanted to wake Scrap up to
finish it because I was taking too long. I asked if I could please try to
finish.
They ate different things than what I was used to. They made a lot of
biscuits. I had never had biscuits like that in my life. They had grits too.
They had one loaf of white bread a week, on Saturday and it wouldn’t last
through the supper meal. I’d always help, whatever was going on. I was right
there doing what the other kids were doing. There were wash days and butcher
days. Everything was different to me. I tried to live the way they lived. It was
all very strange to me. On Saturdays they got groceries. We’d go to the show on
Saturdays. Scrap and I were buddies. Everyone said Scrap was mean and feisty,
but I liked her. I always let her have her way. We got along fine.
In January, I
went to East Alton to visit my family. I had money which I never had before.
When I got to the house, I looked in the window and they were all inside. My
daddy and mother were reading the paper and my sisters were doing the dishes.
They looked like they were doing great. I wasn’t sure that I should intrude. I
was worried but finally decided that I’d come this far so I knocked. Daddy
opened the door and he and everyone were so glad to see me. After a visit, I
caught a bus and went back to Georgia to go back to school.
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| Hazel and Lonzie, San Luis Obispo, CA |
As soon as I got
back, there was a telegram and money waiting for me to catch a train to go San
Luis Obispo, CA. Your daddy was going to be shipped out and wanted me to come. I
went on a train by myself. It took a week to get there. I was 15 and your daddy
was 21. In San Luis Obispo we stayed in a house that was shared. We had an
apartment upstairs. I didn’t see anyone else. It was only one room big enough
for a single bed and chests of drawers and that was it. You could hardly turn
around. Your daddy went to camp every day. I got a job in the commissary. I got
to eat there sometimes too. We ate all our meals out since we didn’t have a
kitchen. The people at my job kept telling me I had to bring in my social
security card. I didn’t know how to get one. I hoped they’d forget, but they
didn’t. One day the man asked me if maybe I didn’t have one. I said no I didn’t
and I didn’t know how to get one. He said that was easy. He brought me some
papers to fill out and I got my social security number. I had a job and a
paycheck. I was very young compared to the other wives. I was only 15 but I had
permission from my daddy. I stayed there all summer and, in the fall. I wanted a
wedding picture. For the picture, your daddy wanted to look important so he
“borrowed” an officers uniform from a dry cleaners. He did return it afterwards.
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| 1944, Hazel and Larry Keith Crawford |
Your daddy was shipped out so I went home. I had a baby boy born January 24,
1944. At the time he was born, I was living with my daddy in his house in East
Alton with my three sisters and stepmother. Your daddy was in the Philippine
Islands. My mother’s sister (Inez) had been over that day. She was supposed to
be able to tell the sex of the baby by the way you carried it. She looked at my
tummy and said oh, you’re so low you’re almost dragging. You are going to have a
girl. Later that night my pains got harder and harder. By 8:15 the next morning,
I had a baby boy. He was very special. My daddy was a very proud Grandpa. I was
so proud of him and determined to raise him. My sisters were all proud of him
too. He was one small, spoiled baby boy. He took the bottle every three hours.
Larry was born premature. He was born at seven months. He weighed 3 pounds 15
ounces at birth. I named him Larry Keith Crawford. He gained weight slowly.
Larry was so small he had to stay in the incubator. While he was in the
hospital, daddy took me to the store to buy material to make some clothes for
him. They were so small they’d fit a little baby doll. He was in the hospital
about six weeks. While he was in the hospital, daddy didn’t take me to see him
very often. The hospital had told my daddy I shouldn’t get too attached to
Larry.
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| Hazel and Larry |
One Sunday a nurse called and told us we better come in to see him. We
weren’t sure if he would live or not. Daddy and I went together. Larry was
panting for breath. He looked like he was dying. But after that day he started
getting stronger.
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| Hazel and Larry |
One day we got to take him home. My daddy was so proud because
he had all girls. He called him “My Little Man”. He was the most exciting thing
our family had ever seen. Everyone was at my side watching as I cared for him in
case, I made a mistake. I sent pictures of him to your daddy. He was so proud of
him. He told everyone he had a baby boy. Any baby that was a boy was a good baby
to the soldier boys.
In Larry’s baby book it lists Larry’s travel as:
July 1,
1944 - We went to Georgia
Nov. 23, 1944 - We went to Douglas, Georgia
Dec. 18 - Jan. 13, 1944/45 - Mom worked at Shipyard and I stayed with Mrs. Altman and Mrs. Dixon.
Feb. 1945
- We went to Illinois
March 1945 - We went to Georgia
March 10, 1945 - In a
letter Lonzie wrote to his mother, it states that he is in a hospital in the
West Indies.
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| 1944/45 Larry's baby book. Hazel was a Rosy the Riveter! |
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| 1945: Hazel, Larry, and Lonzie |
One day the war was over (September 2, 1945). What an exciting time
that was. Your daddy, me, and Larry were all living in Georgia. Your daddy could
not find a job. My daddy came down to Georgia to visit us. We went back to
Illinois with him. Your daddy got a job at the Western Cartridge Company and we
settled down to just living. It was wonderful. Your daddy’s brother, Carl and
Aunt Kissie lived with us for a while. After their son Eddie was born, they
moved to Georgia.
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1946, Front Row: Christian, Larry, Olive, Middle Row: Jim Sayler (Loretta's husband), Loretta, Helen Back Row: Hazel, Lylah |
We had a baby girl and named her Joyce Jean. She was born in
Alton Memorial Hospital on May 10, 1946. All the babies in the nursery at that
time died from an infectious disease. Because Joyce was kept separate in an
incubator, she lived the longest. She made it home but became ill and died on
May 25,1946.
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| 1948 Larry and Hazel |
Two years later, on December 20, 1948 we had a baby girl, Barbara
Louise. She was born at Alton Memorial Hospital. We lived in East Alton until
Barbara was five months old. Then your daddy, me, Larry, and Barbara all moved
to Georgia. We lived “across the swamp”. Grandma Crawford was close to Barbara.
She thought I kept Barbara looking so nice, neat, and clean in her little
dresses. Your daddy farmed tobacco. His whole tobacco crop burned in a barn
fire.
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| 1949 Hazel and Barbara |
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| 1949 Hazel, Barbara, Lonzie, Larry |
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| 1953 Larry and Barbara |
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| 1951 circa Larry |
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| Larry |
We moved to Highland, Illinois when Barbara was four years old. In
Highland we lived in a little house with an outdoor john. We next moved to a
different rental property in the country. That summer of 1954 when I was
pregnant, a heat and drought record was set. Your daddy got a job at Laclede
Steel Mill in Alton. The Steel Mill closed for a few days in the summer of 1954
because it was so hot 107 – 118 degrees. I mean it was hot!
We had a baby girl,
Donna Fay on August 15,1954 at Highland Hospital. We named her after a neighbor
girl that Barbara played with all the time. Her name was Donna Teems. Our home
was burned to the ground on November 2 when Donna was two and a half months old.
Barbara said she likes to say she saved everyone because her and daddy were the
only ones up. She was playing paper dolls on the floor... your daddy was
shaving… Barbara saw smoke under the kitchen door and alerted your daddy. The
neighbors all pitched in and by night fall we had clothes, dishes, furniture,
etc. The neighbors were so kind to us and I was so very grateful. We had only
moved there about two weeks before this, so the neighbors didn’t even know us
very well. The neighbors called my daddy and he called my sister Helen. After
that, we all (your daddy, me, Larry, Barbara, and Donna) moved in with Helen and
her husband, Elvin Buford, in Edwardsville, IL. We stayed with them until we
found a place to rent.
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| 1954 Donna |
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| 1955 Hazel and Donna Fay Crawford |
For about a month we lived on Buena Vista on Milton Road.
In March of 1955 we bought a house at 21 S. Williams Street in Cottage Hills,
IL. We got our first TV set about 1955. It really was wonderful to have a TV
set. Our neighbor, Mrs. Grable had two girls, Betty and Sue. They liked to come
over and play. I was called mother of the street. We had a breeze way between
the garage and utility room. In this breeze way we had a lot of stuff to play
with and old clothes to dress in.
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| 1956 Hazel, Donna, Barbara, Larry, Lonzie |
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| 1956 Barbara and Grandma Crawford |
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1956 Barbara, Randy and Beverly Hock Cousins |
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| 1957 Barbara with dark hair and Sayler cousins |
We had another girl, Patricia Lou on April 1,
1958. She was born at 5 am and weighed five pounds. Barbara helped me give Patti a
bath on a pillow on the table, it was just the two of us.
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| 1959 Patti, Donna, and Barb |
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| 1959 Barb, Patti, Donna |
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| 1958 Patti and Donna |
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| 1958 Donna, Patti, Barb |
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1959 Patti, Hazel, Donna
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We had a baby boy,
Christopher Beal on May 23, 1960. Barbara ran home from school because she
somehow knew she had a new baby there! Mrs. Grable gave Chris his first bath.
*** This is the end of mom's story in her own words. ***
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| 1963 Chris and Hazel |
STUFF MOM SAID:
- Open the door Richard (must be sung)
- Practice makes perfect
- As all get-out
- Spritzing (bacon splatter)
- Soodling (play in water puddle)
- If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all
- You don't have to tell everything you know
- Snooty
- Squeeze the puddin' out of you
Stuff I Remember About My Mother:
Hazel was an introvert. She told us to treat others as you would want to be treated yourself. She was understanding and had empathy for others. She loved and cared for her children and grandchildren. She didn't cuss or drink (she had one drink at Barb's wedding reception and dad was so mad he left her in Breeze). She worked in the laundry at Alton Memorial Hospital for 15 years and was a cook at Beverly Farms for five years. She was artistic and had many interests, including gardening, sewing, embroidery, crocheting, Rubik’s cube, lottery numbers, and raising guppy fish. She made really beautiful decorated cakes. She made Barbie doll birthday cakes for her grand daughters and darling Easter Bunny 3D cakes. I remember eating spoonful's of icing. She was particularly good at math and she could draw. She could identify birds by their chirps. She made delicious stuffing and Jewish Coffee Cake. She loved Christmas and always made it magical for her children.
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January 5, 1951
Dear Helen and Elven,
I received your letter and will try and answer if I can. We are all OK except Larry and Barbara have bad colds. Hope you are feeling better by this time.
Well, I guess I better take this time to thank you for the blue jeans for Christmas. You know they are really something I needed bad. The shirt is quite a bit to big but it’s pretty. I will wear it any way. Lonzie said he might ___________ it some time.
Well, I really don’t know what you sent Larry and Barbara but they got so much. I and Lonzie didn’t get them much. They got a big box from Loretta, Grandma Zimmermann, Doris, Frieda, and Aunt Inez and Lylah. Larry was terribly excited the night before he woke up about 2 o’clock and called mama, is it time to get up yet!! And when morning came, he was up about the time Lonzie was and then you ought to have seen him and Barbara. Here is what they got if you already don’t know.
Barbara | Barbara | Larry | Larry |
Doll buggy | Santa clause doll | Tractor and parts | pajamas |
Doll bed | 2 pair pajamas | Dump truck | Red shirt |
Rocking chair | 1 red shirt | Scoop shovels | White sweater |
2 ironing boards | 1 pr blue jeans | Cowboy suit | Belt |
2 irons | 3 ribbons | Holster and gun | Dominos |
Wash tub | 2 pr socks | Cap guns | Bingo game |
Clothes line/pins | 2 pr under pants | Pen/pencil set | Rocking chair |
Doll | Dress material | 2 story books | Orange sweater |
Teddy bear | Pair of shoes | 2 color books | Red & Grn shirt |
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Got enough to get excited over. Mother and Daddy sent so much. Loretta sent Barbara an ironing board and iron. It stands up pretty tall and it’s red metal. The iron has a string on it with a rubber stub on the end to wet and stick on the
ironing board to act like it’s plugged in. It’s real cute and Barbara really likes it fine. Also, she looks cute in her red shirt and blue pants. And it’s real cute to see her push the doll carriage. Larry and her have a little puppy. She puts it in the carriage and pushes it around. Larry can’t seem to decide on a name for his dog. It’s part German Police and part Shepard. I think if it gets big it may be a good watch dog. Don’t you think?
We have our tobacco bed planted now. And Lonzie has started plowing up cotton stalks. Then he starts turning ground. He has so much to do; he has to build a smoke house, water shelf (Jonny also) clean up the brush around the house here, and turn all the ground. He doesn’t know what to do first.
Our new address is R# 1, Patterson, GA.
I like this new place fine. All though we are smothered under with work. I don’t think we will ever get through. They started building on our tobacco barn.
I must stop and get supper. I guess Lonzie and all are just raring for it. I put up Barbara’s hair this afternoon and believe it or not it’s still up. Lonzie’s sister, the one they call Sister, she had a baby girl December 30 on Lonzie’s birthday. Gene was home for Christmas. His boy is big but can’t walk yet. It has dark curly hair.
Had a letter from Loretta today. She is fine. She was home for Christmas. She wrote it on December 31. Well, I must sign off for now.
With all my love your sister,
Hazel and Family
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| Hazel and Lonzie |
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| 1989 circa Hazel and Lonzie |
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| Hazel and Lonzie |
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| Hazel |
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| 1961, Chris and Lonzie |
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| 1960 Patti and Chris |
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| 1960 Patti and Chris |
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| 1961 Christmas |
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| 1960 Christmas |
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| 1960 Hazel, Chris, Barb, Patti |
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| 1962 Christmas |
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| 1962 Patti and Barb |
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| 1963 Donna, Hazel, Patti |
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| 1963 Christmas |
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Back Row: Geneva?, Hazel, Barb?, Lessie, Unknown, Julian?, Lonzie. Front Row: Patti, Donna, Unknown, Unknown, Chris |
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| Easter 1963 Chris, Barb, Patti, Donna |
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| 1963 Donna, Chris, Lonzie, Barb, Patti |
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| 1964 Patti, Barb, Chris, Donna |
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| 1964 Chris, Lonzie, Patti |
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| 1964 Christmas table |
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| 1964 Our home before the add-on. |
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| 1966 Our home after the add on |
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| 1969 Mom mentioned that they got their first TV in 1955. This must still be that same black and white T |
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Hazel's letter to Barb after Jill (her first grand child) was born.
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| Hazel's letter to Barb after Jill (her first grand child) was born. |